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Biggest Mistakes You Can Make at Your Company’s Holiday Party
Dec 9, 2014
1. Not Show Up
The holiday party has varying levels of formality at your company depending on the company culture. The party might be an informal gathering after work to drink eggnog and have a Secret Santa or it could be a cocktail party with a formal dinner. The absolute worst thing that you can do is NOT participate. Companies schedule these parties months in advance and the more formal events require an RSVP. Treat this as an appointment just like you would with a client. This is a great way to meet people in other departments and you may even impress someone with your hidden talents that do not have an opportunity to be displayed in your daily work.
2. Not follow the written and unwritten rules
Parties are a source of fun and also a source of entertainment. Although an office party is more laid back than general business hours, do not behave unprofessionally. If the invitation specified a formal dress code, dress accordingly. Some parties are “employees- only” while other companies extend the invitation to employees’ signification others. Know if it is appropriate to bring guests and who is considered an acceptable guest (only over 21, spouses, friends, prospective clients, casual date, etc.).
3. Over/ Under Imbibe
A 2012 university study showed that perceived IQ was lowered by the simple act of holding an alcoholic beverage, however, in social situations, people who do not drink are considered to be antisocial. Find the happy balance at your holiday party so that you are not a topic of conversation on Monday.
4. Be the Wallflower
As someone who is a natural wallflower, I find it hard to jump into a large crowd of unknowns and make friends. The only thing worse than not showing up to the party is showing up and nobody knowing you are there. This is also a waste of your personal time. Make the rounds by speaking with several people inside and outside of your department. Are you too shy to socialize alone? Find a coworker you know and have them be your sidekick in the meet and great portion of your company’s party.
Most companies consider your attendance an unwritten expectation and there was a lot of planning and money spent on this event. The best thing you can do for your Christmas party is go in with a positive outlook on the evening and a great attitude; you might end up making some great memories.
Photo credit: Joe Buckingham
